I am severely averse to people using my tattoos as a conversation starter or means of breaking the ice. I don’t want to compare tattoos with you as a way to get to know you.

My tattoos are of course part of who I am. A piece of the puzzle, as it were. Willing, conscious alterations to my being that will last as long as I do. With the average climate the bulk of my work is nearly always on display and I can understand why it is brought up as often as it is being both obvious, notable and relatively (regionally) uncommon.

Part of my distaste is likely due to the frequency of the queries. People that are unfamiliar with body modifications are naturally curious to the details and motivation behind them. I respect their desire to know more and like to think I have even broadened a mind or two in the process. Regardless, answering the same questions grows old.

Another reason is that it is just too easy, a baby step down from talking about the weather. Probing deeper will provide a rich context for the answers to modification related queries, or they may even come up on their own along the way. Such discourse will get you real answers, the kind given to people who have made it clear that they genuinely care, instead of stock answers that are doled out to numbskulls that ask me what they mean or where they come from right off the bat. Those answers are designed to appease your inquisitiveness in as few words as possible.

and Sunday was SLC Pride… and winning the “MISS CITY WEEKLY” I was on the City Weekly float!

such a whirlwind weekend! i have have a mild sunburn, and am still recovering from hang’n out all day in the sun. lots of fun to come… hosting my gal-pal Shauntay’s Birthday party this Thursday:

getting tattoo’d on Friday… sleeve should be finished! have appointments booked out until September… going to add to my legs – they feel naked!

I’m moving into a new apartment on Tuesday. lots and lots to do.

xoxo

but, my BFF Jared Gomez is going to be hosting the event – and so it should be fun. and the photo i took will run in the City Weekly adverts… so make sure you pick up a copy in the next few weeks and add it to your scrapbooks!

slowly getting everything together – it seems a lot is happening in SLC these days, but yet days + months seem to meld together and time is fly’n by.

i’m booked to walk in the BLACK CHANDELIER fashion show. (BLACK CHANDELIER is now w/o Jared Gold and is making a ‘comeback’ so to speak) and have some photo shoots planned for the summer. i’m going to update my business cards & blog layout when they’re all done. exciting things to come!

oh yeah – i’m dating now. weird, huh? the self-proclaimed ‘single’ is now ‘taken’ and i’m still getting use to it all. but, it’s nice. he’s a cutie and puts up with my temper tantrums and spoiled brat ways.

hmm… what else. oh, lots of tattoos have been finished / started / whatever – but i’m too lazy to post any photos. if you wanna see them, i’m sure you can use your internet stalking abilities and locate them yourself… which would be creepy, but hilarious.

rambling @ 3:00AM — it’s what i do best.

ttfn, pals!

xoxo